One of my favorite wrestlers in the former World Wrestling Federation was Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson. I must admit that at first I did not like him because he was extremely arrogant. However, I have grown accustomed to the Rock. Of the many phrases and gestures that I liked, my favorite phrase by far was “Your role know it, your mouth shut it.” The Rock would often use this expression to put people in their place. You know how it can be at times when dealing with people who are all in your kool-aid, theirs and everyone else. How annoying! This approach is simple. Believe me it is not complicated. I think that when people get out of their role and try to dictate to others how to function it is because they just don’t know how to function in their roles.
For people who are trying to manipulate the lives of others, what is it that you lack? If you are living your life vicariously through someone else, then it needs to stop. Get some business of your own. I think that there is a fine line between instigating drama and helping. Some people need help while others just need to find their way. Either way, let those that may need help come to you instead of you getting into their business.